Friday, June 9

Confession

I just don't get it! Why do we categorise things, each other, races? Put everyone in categories.
OH, guys are "dogs" and girls are "bitches", when there are guys that are bitches and girls that are dogs.

We can't just categorise eceryone just because a small group of people behaves in a certain way. When you actually take a good look, it's very a small group, but those are the ones who tend to stand out of the crowd. So we assume everyone’s like them. But it's nothing like that.

We, ourselves put barriers/walls amongst us, with the crap about "Women from Venus, Men from Mars". It's just CRAP! And apparently we are making this as the "IDEAL" (stupid) thinking, a way for us to communicate with each other and we are putting ourselves in these roles. But my friends these are the things that prevents us from equal rights in our society.

Then in a way I do believe men and women are different, but as in physical shapes/clothing/gestures but not in mind and soul!! We are making unnecessary knots when the line couldn't be any straighter.

Over all we shouldn't judge or assume! That is for God/Allah/Higher power. We are only human being, we should treat ONE person by the facts that we know about that person and no more then that.

8 comments:

aragorn said...

does it matter that, ppl call someone dog/bitch depending on the gender??? i thought its insulting to the person being called like that... isnt it?...:-S... BTW who called whom what??...:-/

Shakia said...

Yes it is, but the main point wasn't that. It was how we generalize things, some for girls all the guys are same and for some guys all the girls are same...

Women sitting over coffee and being anti-male, putting themselves to this fictional roles that they read from a book or seen from series, and assume they know all.

Weatherman said...

hehe, I call the people around me a lot of things. There r worse things than dogs and bitches you know. They dont seem to mind, for most part.

Anyhow,...about generelizing. It helps at times you know. And the typical group behaviors you are pointing at, those are hardly to be taken seriously. They just provide coffe table gender bitching topics, nothing more.

But yeah...we do judge people too soon. We have only so much time to get to know people well. Generalizing saves up a lot of time. Unfair? very! but what u gonna do? Thats the way it is.

Shakia said...

well amit thats wht I am not going to do... saves up time yes.. but still where is the rush? we will die today or tomorrow...

Weatherman said...

HEY! How come nobody writes anything in here anymore? What are you upto anyway?

dipu_1&only said...

we need more posts :(

Aftab Iqbal said...

Hey......where have u disappeared to girl?? Theek hai some conflicts lekan total ghayyab ho jana :O *cries*

Anonymous said...

Hey the new line is "Men are from from KRYPTON and women are from Venus" ......... dont belive me? Watch "Justice League" at Cartoon Network weekdays 2300hrs BD time.

and all the superheros are getting along pretty well..... no biased view about HE or SHE .... costumes r different.

and hey how come Batman has 45% rating ....... he's the one I like most....... that Superhero quiz >now thats biased...

ow and I agree Vinci Code: Book rocks - the movie sucks...